Adventuring with Rishi

My husband and I are lucky enough to have done some travelling and we have had so many memorable and amazing experiences to date. I am keen that Rishi can join in our adventures and we can bring him on our holidays. For someone so little, he’s already travelled halfway across the world and stayed in some incredible places, and it all started before he was even born. My friend called him a “traveller from conception” as when I was only just pregnant (and didn’t know I was pregnant!) I flew from Warsaw to Amsterdam to Ireland in 48 hours…

Obviously travelling with a baby is not the same as putting on a backpack and seeing where you end up, but whilst it takes a little more planning, having a baby does not mean that your time for holidays, hiking or helicopter flights are over. It just means that you do things a little differently.

When Rishi was 8 months old we set off on a 4 week adventure around California and Hawaii … from San Diego to travelling around Kauai and Maui and ending up in Sonoma and San Francisco in Northern California. This trip involved 6 flights, two states, 9 apartments / hotels and was the trip of a lifetime.

Even though we both have a lot of experience travelling, I was still apprehensive and had some worries… some proved misplaced and yet there were other things that weren’t even on my radar which ended up being quite problematic!

I assumed that jet lag would be hard.

Don’t get me wrong. It was hard and it was much harder on the journey back from America to the UK but travelling west, back in time, wasn’t that bad. I imagined sleepless nights and falling asleep in the day from exhaustion and although it took a while for all of us to adjust; we got through it okay. There were a few early starts when we first landed in the US, but that just meant our day started a little earlier, it really wasn’t that bad. Maybe I’d made it so much of an issue in my head that anything would have been better but we were ready to adjust our day and we said that we would make ourselves get up and out so Rishi had the bet chance of adjusting his sleep pattern as possible.  For more tips on how we survived jet lag with a baby, please visit my blog post.

I had really worried about Rishi eating.

With the trip we had planned I am very pleased that we waited until he was 8months old and weaning before we set off on our month long adventure. It gave us a lot more freedom with less feeds to worry about and we only needed to work around his meals and naps. For weaning we had opted for fully baby led weaning as we thought it would be easier when feeding him on the move instead of needing to purée everything, he could just eat what we ate.  That said, I sneaked some secret weetabix and 3x my melty stick (if you know, you know) allowance without Krish knowing, just to be safe. I’d say the hardest bit was getting him to eat on the plane which hadn’t even crossed my mind as an issue. He ate food but it wasn’t like we had a highchair or a space for him to eat, so it was just on my lap. I was prepared to get pretty messy and boy, did I get messy but I just made sure (as it was a long flight) that we had lots of choice and I always tried to give him a little of what I was eating. Rishi was exposed to new flavours and for us, baby led weaning worked a treat. We were fortunate that Rishi took so well to it.

We adapted our day to work around Rishi’s meal times, and we usually ate lunch and dinner together as a family. Rishi is very much in to social eating, and he was so good in the restaurants! As we were moving around and staying in a mix of apartments and hotels, we had a portable highchair (just a wrap one) and a tidy tot, which proved invaluable. It saved clearing up a mess on the floor and it provided a tray and harness to hold him in where there was no high chair available.

We were keen to ensure the accommodation was suitable for us all.

We spent a lot of time planning where we were going to stay, including the type of accommodation and how we were going to do it.

We have never been a fan of big hotel complexes, we were more of boutique hotels, glamping and novel stays (like the bubble domes in Ireland) but we opted for a mixture of air bnbs, hotel suites and hotel rooms (where we were using it as a quick stop at an airport).

For the most part we rented condos and apartments – this allowed us to have some space in the evenings once Rishi went to sleep so that we weren’t trapped in a dark room from 8pm every night. Rishi has never been one of those babies that would sleep in a stroller while we eat dinner in a restaurant, we tried a couple of times in advance of our trip but he just wasn’t happy and so we made the decision to keep to his routine while he was away. We always had such jam packed days that we didn’t mind getting home for his bedtime. That said we picked places with hot tubs, nice views and balconies so we could still enjoy the evenings together.

Quite a lot of people we have spoken to were shocked that we chose air bnbs but we have used them pre and post Rishi and always had a good experience. We had a slight mishap over bookings on the trip which was our mistake, but air bnb were super responsive and helpful, so we were really impressed. If it’s your first time, I’d go for a super host or at least one which a lot of good reviews, you may pay a little more but it will still be less than a hotel and you’ll have more comfort of where you’re staying.

For each of our Hawaiian Islands, we wanted to travel around to see as much of the islands as possible. This meant either very long drives back and forth to different parts of the island or staying a few nights in different parts of the island to make for shorter drives in the day. We opted for the latter. I think this worked for us as it meant shorter drives on our day trips, but you have to balance this against packing, unpacking and moving on.

I didn’t worry about luggage.

I had a view of… well if we might need it, it comes. In practice you really do have to be practical and selective with what you need. I didn’t really think about the baggage weight or the practicality of how we would travel around with so much stuff. It only dawned on me when we got to the airport and tried to manage Rishi and luggage. Going through an airport and security is bad enough without kids. With kids it becomes a real pain (regardless of how organised and sorted you are). This meant it was hard work at every airport, and every new accommodation. Thankfully Krish was very hands on and took the brunt of it, but it was a logistical nightmare. Looking back there were some things which we didn’t need to take but overall I think you just have to be prepared that it’s a bit of a pain!

Transporting Rishi

Now I’m not talking about planes and trains but more how you get your little one around. On our trip we had the buggy, the car seat and a carrier… which is quite a lot of baby kit, which obviously added to our luggage!

We had planned to take Rishi on some hikes and terrain that wouldn’t be buggy friendly, so while I loved our babyzen, I just knew it wasn’t going to cut it. I was worried about what would be good for Rishi and for us to carry him and so wanted other options which meant that Rishi could share in our adventures. I contacted Its a Sling Thing and they were great in offering me advice on the best baby carrier which would be suitable for our adventure. What was great was that we had a carrier for our trip which was suitable for us being active. Carriers and slings can be expensive so using a baby sling library or company like It’s a Sling Thing means you can have the best of both worlds…. have the carrier you need, all the advice, but not the huge financial outlay of having it permanently. It was a great solution for us. Rishi was kept safe and cool and he could enjoy the hikes with us. Carriers and slings are also so great for airports. Airports can be noisy, loud and scary and so keeping a baby closest to you is, in my view, a great way to keep the baby calm and feeling safe in a very alien environment!

Another thing worth checking was about car seats. If you’re planning a trip, think what you’re going to do. To hire a car seat was expensive in the states and so we opted to take it. It was a big bulky item but it saved us a lot of cash and we knew it was then up to UK standards. Car rental companies are usually quite helpful and will give you information on the car seats they have so you can do what you’re comfortable with.

So, looking back and having the benefit of hindsight, these are my must-have items for travelling:

• Baby feeding spoons/Tupperware
• Small cool bag for storing food
• Sippy cup (at least 2, as you need to prepare for losing one like we did)
• Portable highchair (there are lots of options in different price brackets)
• Tidy tot (is my favourite baby discovery and I take it everywhere)
• Travel cot (as we weren’t staying in hotels, we didn’t have the option to have a cot where ever we went, it also meant he had something more familiar in terms of the sheets and space)
• MyHummy (he sleeps with white noise, so totally invaluable)
• Baby carrier
• Babyzen (amazing pram, super lightweight and super practical for travel)
• Car seat: you might not need this, as in some countries they come with the car hire for free, however in Hawaii it was charged in a per day amount and that adds up on a month trip, so we decided to take ours!) And, as the car seat is a free carry on, you get to bing lots of baby stuff in the car seat bag leaving more space on your suitcase for other stuff.
• Calpol and a good first aid kit (for all the family)

I suppose travelling with a young baby isn’t everyone’s cup of tea and isn’t possible for everyone, but it was hands down the best thing for me and my little family. We bonded, we became stronger and we made fantastic memories, and it’s an experience that I’ll never forget. Totally, the best month of my life.

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